promjena

The boundaries of a person’s reality often do not change until that person forsakes what he or she feels confident in and then goes blindly with faith.

You must take personal responsibility. You cannot change the circumstances, the seasons, or the wind, but you can change yourself. That is something you have charge of.

You must constantly ask yourself these questions: Who am I around? What are they doing to me? What have they got me reading? What have they got me saying? Where do they have me going? What do they have me thinking? And most important, what do they have me becoming? Then ask yourself the big question: Is that okay? Your life does not get better by chance, it gets better by change.

You cannot control what happens to you, but you can control your attitude toward what happens to you, and in that, you will be mastering change rather than allowing it to master you.

Any time you sincerely want to make a change, the first thing you must do is to raise your standards. When people ask me what really changed my life eight years ago, I tell them that absolutely the most important thin was changing what I demanded of myself. I wrote down all the things I would no longer accept in my life, all the things I would no longer tolerate, and all the things that I aspired to becoming.

All personal breakthroughs being with a change in beliefs. So how do we change? The most effective way is to get your brain to associate massive pain to the old belief. You must feel deep in your gut that not only has this belief cost you pain in the past, but it’s costing you in the present and, ultimately, can only bring you pain in the future. Then you must associate tremendous pleasure to the idea of adopting a new, empowering belief.

“One step - choosing a goal and sticking to it - changes everything.”

“Life is either a daring adventure or nothing. To keep our faces toward change and behave like free spirits in the presence of fate is strength undefeatable.”

“You learn in life that the only person you can really correct and change is yourself.”

On taking responsibility for self change:
When dealing with people, I generally take the
obvious approach. When someone says, “This
always happens to me and that always happens to
me. Why do these things always happen to me?”
I simply say, “Beats me. I don’t know. All I know
s that those kinds of thngs seem to happen to
people like you.”

You must be the change you wish to see in the world.

Every human has four endowments- self-awareness, conscience,
independent will and creative imagination. These give us the ultimate
human freedom… The power to choose, to respond, to change.